As you’ve probably noticed, I often write about a guy I call J. J is originally from Finland. He and I have known each other for five years, been together for almost three years, and lived together for over two years. And, for the last eight weeks or so, we’ve also been engaged :-). We’ve taken our time in telling people and we wanted those closer to us to know before we announced it to the internet via Facebook and blog (both of which we did today). We’re taking our time with the rest of the process too. No plans yet; we don’t even have rings. We’re working on it at our own pace. And fortunately, I don’t need a ring to know that I am so incredibly happy :-).